My key highlights from the Introduction:
- change is unavoidable
- each moment is different from every other. nothing remains static for an instant, from a planetary to a molecular level
- the action stage is simply one of six stages — following precontemplation, contemplation, and preparation, and preceding maintenance and termination
- fewer than 20% of a problem population are prepared for action at any given time. and yet, more than 90% of behavior change programs are designed with this 20% in mind
- [successful] self-change requires that you know what stage you are in for the problem you want to overcome
- even people who are not ready to act can set the change process in motion
- 45% of clients drop out of psychotherapy prematurely, since treatments too often don’t match the stage clients are in
- there are fewer differences between therapy-changers and self-changers
- it can be argued that all change is self-change, and that therapy is simply professionally coached self-change
- the key is always to use the right strategy at the right time
- very often, failure is due to lack of guidance — most self-changers are so busy reinventing the wheel that they become exhausted during the course of their struggle